I needed to go feed
Addalee and go to bed like an hour ago.
I need the sleep, and she needs the milk. But I can’t bring myself to go upstairs into
the dark quiet of bedtime. I’m not
afraid of the dark, per se, I’m afraid
of what my mind does in those empty moments before sleep blurs my
thoughts. I’m afraid to relive. I’m afraid to regret. I’m afraid to think of how badly I miss
her. I’m afraid to strain to remember
her face, her smell. I’m afraid to panic
when I think I’ve forgotten a single detail.
I’m afraid.
Life has been a
little heavy lately. My heart has been
filled with such joy and sadness, it’s so completely sad, and yet blissful at
the same moment. Caroline has been so
present on my mind. Each day, she’s in
the forefront. I’m constantly thinking
of that darling girl. How could this really be our story? How could she really be real? But she is real. She was a perfect and beautiful baby girl; a baby
girl that I would still give my very life to have.
I don’t want to
wallow. That’s not helpful in any shape,
form, or fashion. But I’m just so
freaking sad. I can’t lie about it. I can’t pretend that it isn’t killing me
right now. Because it’s weighing me
down. I don’t want to cry. I don’t want this. I just don’t.
I’m just about to
force myself up those dark stairs. I’ve
almost worked up enough nerve. And like
a scared child, I will run to the safety of my bed (after I feed my little happy
girl), and hide under the covers, and pray for all I’m worth until I fall
asleep. And tomorrow, the sun will come
up, and the weight will seem more manageable.
But tonight…tonight, I’m afraid of the dark.