tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5868743886012358095.post7919941833136937821..comments2023-10-22T09:19:30.832-04:00Comments on Caroline's Family: The FearNicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03766020996629533476noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5868743886012358095.post-64108118783268761192012-12-19T13:01:15.736-05:002012-12-19T13:01:15.736-05:00You're the queen of worst case scenario. Man, ...You're the queen of worst case scenario. Man, don't I understand those words. The idea of becoming pregnant again (again??) makes me weak in the knees. <br /><br />You're living in fear, just like before and we're all with you to support. There's nothing that can be done to settle those nerves. I was, however, HOPING you'd say something like, "I'm not as nervous this time around because Addalee is here and being busy pushes those terrible thoughts away."<br /><br />Of course I know the truth. It's hard and will never be easy I guess. Be as honest as you need to be. We're totally here to support you. This is hard. You can do it. This is SO hard. You CAN do it. Easy for me to say... remind me of these words when I get pregnant again, okay?B. Wilson @ Windy {City} Wilsonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17479551028143520755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5868743886012358095.post-4277539917141632962012-12-14T18:15:15.865-05:002012-12-14T18:15:15.865-05:00I hope you keep writing, because someday I might g...I hope you keep writing, because someday I might get pregnant again and I'll be glad to read what other people's experiences are/were with second pregnancy after loss. I often feel like I am only getting everything halfway done, and I'm not pregnant. So you're doing pretty awesome! The holidays are like that for everyone, even people without a baby/toddler, grief, and pregnancy to balance. Hang in there!!!Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13329481801694746402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5868743886012358095.post-48823887096363108722012-12-14T11:52:46.267-05:002012-12-14T11:52:46.267-05:00I don't really enjoy ALL sunshine and daisies ...I don't really enjoy ALL sunshine and daisies because that just doesn't feel real. It's okay to be honest, so much is good and so much is really scary and hard. Keep plugging away. xoxoMama Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15448908179398529689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5868743886012358095.post-40019042534148417372012-12-13T21:45:51.260-05:002012-12-13T21:45:51.260-05:00I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I don...I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I don't think I'll ever get over how terrifying it is to be pregnant after a loss... And how that anxiety just eats away at you- it's just too much.<br /><br />xox momma. Keeping fingers crossed ever so tightly for you. Lj82https://www.blogger.com/profile/01067562341189588336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5868743886012358095.post-90214931768904779182012-12-13T11:20:39.582-05:002012-12-13T11:20:39.582-05:00The thing is - we are all scared for you, but we a...The thing is - we are all scared for you, but we are also all so hopeful for you too. <br /><br />I am scared of all of it - I'm scared of another stillbirth, and now another miscarriage. I'm scared of the second trimester because that's the only time I haven't lost a baby. I'm scared I'll never even get pregnant again, yet terrified that I will.<br /><br />Oh hun - it is so scary. But at the end of the day, remember we were on the bad side of statistics - the small, unusual side. And almost 30 weeks is good, really good. So just do what you have to do, and in the meantime we will be wishing for the very best for you - ready to love and support your family no matter what.Carolinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00101380791416834049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5868743886012358095.post-31167830544196874152012-12-13T09:37:13.939-05:002012-12-13T09:37:13.939-05:00That's the thing I love most about this place,...That's the thing I love most about this place, that there is so much support and understanding for all that fear. Vent away friend, we are all right here to listen. I wish it didn't have to be so scary, I wish we lived in blissful ignorance , but since we don't thankfully we have connected! Love you friend!Addi's momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13162101241886761065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5868743886012358095.post-56489207222956224342012-12-13T09:20:53.521-05:002012-12-13T09:20:53.521-05:00You get double high-fives from me today friend!! Y...You get double high-fives from me today friend!! You are such a brave, strong, wonderful momma! I know just how sickening that fear of loss is. To go through that twice is just pure amazement to me! You can do this. Just 10 (hopefully less...) weeks left to go. Hang in there. Vent on your blog as needed! If it helps you feel better even for just a little bit then do it! No one reading here gives one crap about sunshine and daisies :). <br /><br />Love you! xoxoxHillaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10944360286843076465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5868743886012358095.post-72774736123397526272012-12-13T09:11:39.957-05:002012-12-13T09:11:39.957-05:00Hi friend, thinking of you today and giving you a ...Hi friend, thinking of you today and giving you a virtual high five! :o)<br /><br />It is such a heavy burden to bear and it takes so much energy to carry around, I do agree with that. My husband has been encouraging us to try again for another baby but I am so fearful of...everything. It almost feels like I don't deserve to be happy again. :o( <br /><br />Thinking of you and sending lots of positive thoughts!Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07004388470541699990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5868743886012358095.post-44229503062859155602012-12-13T09:03:34.336-05:002012-12-13T09:03:34.336-05:00I felt exactly the same way when I was pregnant wi...I felt exactly the same way when I was pregnant with my rainbow baby. I think it would be strange if you didn't feel like this. <br /><br />I am wishing you your happy ending this time!!My New Normalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03482513767849843084noreply@blogger.com